There were times last fall when Georgia‚Äôs inside linebacker coach Kirk Olivadotti had the chance to bond with his 4-year-old daughter, Kasyn ‚Äî usually at midnight or later.
Before you assume that something is out of sorts with this family, you must know about Kasyn‚Äôs challenge. She was diagnosed with leukemia a little over a year ago. The powerful medications she was taking caused her to venture off a normal sleep cycle.
Olivadotti would come in from a long day at the office ‚Äî starting out at first light, or before, and working a 16-hour day ‚Äî and Kasyn would often be awake.
He would take her into the kitchen and fix cereal for her or make her a grilled-cheese sandwich.
Suddenly, the fatigue of his coaching routine evolved into renewed energy and inspiration. His daughter fought for her life at Egleston Hospital at Emory for months in the spring of 2011.
Every opportunity to spend time with Kasyn was a joyful occasion. When a linebacker made a play that helped Georgia win a game, Olivadotti was appreciative and grateful, but nothing could compare to coming home at midnight and seeing Kasyn put her arms around his neck and hang out with him in the kitchen.
Both Olivadotti, and his wife, Keely, lived day-to-day most of last year, and they are grateful that they have come this far with Kasyn. And while she still has a heavy dosage of medication each week, there is hope for a cure and a normal life.
‚ÄúTechnically, she is in remission, and we are hoping she will be cancer free in a couple of years,‚Äù Olivadotti said.
He and Keely marvel at the positive attitude Kasyn has.
‚ÄúShe knows she has cancer,‚Äù Olivadotti said. ‚ÄúBut she knows that she can win the fight.‚Äù
Kasyn takes a chemotherapy pill every day and smiles her way through tough Tuesdays, when she has to take as many as nine pills.
‚ÄúWe are humbled and grateful,‚Äù Olivadotti said last week after coming off the road for the annual evaluation of high-school prospects. ‚ÄúFirst, there was the shock and then we just became numb, but the thing that gave us the most encouragement was the faith and confidence of the wonderful staff at Egleston Hospital. If we were going to have a challenge that we‚Äôve had, we are thankful that it happened with us being close to such a wonderful facility and staff.‚Äù
All last summer, Kasyn was hospitalized, with Keely literally living at the hospital with her daughter. All the while, there was Kasyn‚Äôs 2-year-old brother, Kruz, who needed attention too.
‚ÄúWe made it somehow,‚Äù Olivadotti smiled. ‚ÄúMy parents (Tom and Karen) and Keely‚Äôs parents (Keith and Cathy Stewart) all pitched in. They would take turns coming and spending time with us to assist Keely and to help look after Kruz.‚Äù
Then there were the coaches‚Äô wives, who reached out to the Olivadottis, offering assistance on an ongoing basis.
‚ÄúEverybody has been great to us and we are appreciative,‚Äù Olivadotti said. ‚ÄúKeely had to bear the brunt of the ordeal, both physically and emotionally. I don‚Äôt think we could have made it without the help and support of so many friends. This place (Athens) is right hospitable and caring.‚Äù
June and July offer more family time for the coaches. Olivadotti will take advantage of that option to see his family with a normal routine since the first of August means the return of 16- and 18-hour work days. He won‚Äôt mind the grind, and he won‚Äôt complain about the long hours.
When you know your family‚Äôs health is not an issue, it makes any job more enjoyable.
For Olivadotti, there still will be something to worry about on the practice field ‚Äî like a linebacker blowing an assignment, missing a tackle, or giving up a big play.
That, however, is trumped by Kasyn‚Äôs healthy smile.